Fishing for compliiments can have unexpected results.  I've read that psychologists call this phenomenon The Law Of Unintended Consequences.  You activate this law by saying one small thing (no pun intended), which ends up taking you in the opposite direction of your desires.  It's happened to me plenty of times, and it's yet another reason to remember that silence is golden, especially in the afterglow.  Please e-mail me at:  pjones41@kc.rr.com, and come join me on facebook, too.  Farmville or Frontierville, anyone?