Some grown children live in their parents' basement, while others share a house or apartment.  Usually, the one who owns the home or who lived there first thinks, with good reason, that the final say for most decisions goes to them.  But it gets complicated, and there's humor, if you can find it.  Please e-mail me at:  pjones41@kc.rr.com, and come join me on facebook, too.  Farmville, anyone?