Evidently Kyle and Steven have not yet resolved their decor problems.  Usually one partner manages to dominate the household issues, often after a lot of sturm und drang.  I admire couples who can make such decisions together, peacefully.  From those I've known, they're rare.  Please e-mail me at:  pjones41@kc.rr.com,a nd come join me on facebook, too.  Farmville, anyone?