Since the lady's request is relatively impossible, I think it's safe to say that she's letting him down not so easy.  One aspect of human nature is that we often want people or things that elude our grasp, and maybe aren't even good for us at all.  Somehow, it makes them seem so much more attractive.  Please e-mail me at:  pjnes41@kc.rr.com, and come join me on facebook, too.  Farmville, anyone?